How to Stop an Affair Before it Starts Part 1? Surefire Ways To Affair Proofing Your Marriage
Wouldn?t it be great if you could predict the future and stop your spouse from ever cheating on you? I know it sounds silly but it is possible to stop an affair before it starts?even it it?s happened before.
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The problem is that everyone who gets married doesn?t think to themselves ?I?m going to get married, stay faithful for a few years and then cheat on my spouse.? Relationships are complex and the more stress we add to them the more complex they become and it?s these complexities and stresses that lead to affairs.
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Even if your spouse has strayed, it is possible to ?affair proof? your marriage and keep them from straying again but both you and your spouse need to be on the same page if it?s going to work.
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Affairs don?t happen overnight. They usually start out as a small emotional connection between two people who have something in common before becoming full blown physical affairs.? The emotional connection can be difficult to recognize by both parties because there are no physical boundaries to cross, but if you are aware of what some of the signs are you might be able to stop an affair before it starts.
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The First Rule to Affair Proof Your Marriage
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If you want to affair proof your marriage you need to start by identifying acceptable boundaries with members of the opposite sex. This is especially true if you?ve already been victimized by an affair.
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Start out by making a list of behaviors and actions and go though them one by one and rank them from 1 to 10, 1 being acceptable and 10 being not acceptable. Some of these actions might include:
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Receiving a call once in a while from a member of the opposite sex
Regularly texting a member of the opposite sex
Going out to lunch with a member of the opposite sex
Spending time alone with a member of the opposite sex
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Work together and come up with a list that you both can agree on then rank the activities accordingly. This will help you to identify acceptable boundaries in relationships outside your marriage.
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The reality is that your spouse had an affair because a boundary was crossed while spending too much time alone with someone of the opposite sex and if you?re the cheater you should be intent on limiting your time alone with someone of the opposite sex if you?re serious about recommitting to your relationship.
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